Meet Your pleasure dealers

Hi! We're Myria and Leigh, the two women behind Iris Proper. We're moms, we're wives, and we love calling the Arizona desert home and raising our families here.

We are not sexual heath experts. We’re just two women on a mission to nourish ourselves, deepen our connection to our partners, and help other women do the same.

We might be blushing, but we're doing it anyway.

Our Pleasure Mission

Iris Proper aims to normalize toys as tools to help women reclaim their pleasure and recenter intimacy in their lives.

Yes, we’re a toy shop, but that’s not all. We’re also a community and an education hub,  because as fun as toys are, they’re not the end-all-be-all of intimate health.

You deserve a healthy and fulfilling intimate life - whether solo, in partnership, or both.

Bodysafe and Beautiful

Our Product Standards

We carefully curate our premium toys and lubes to meet our Top Drawer product standards. All our products are bodysafe, beautiful, and from brands we know and trust.

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